tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7492804663825542953.post8612311784950025687..comments2024-01-13T19:12:51.808+01:00Comments on Abigale's Airings: ObserVation: Heel marks Abigale's Airingshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10969935988651312500noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7492804663825542953.post-47317564195426350672018-04-15T12:20:49.487+02:002018-04-15T12:20:49.487+02:00Just guessing, but don't we all do that? Altho...Just guessing, but don't we all do that? Although some of us need to remember to take them down before our other half wants to use the loo.SusieJayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01038616807347585413noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7492804663825542953.post-88324782676652533472018-04-15T12:15:42.575+02:002018-04-15T12:15:42.575+02:00How do you manage to even stay upright in 4 or 5 i...How do you manage to even stay upright in 4 or 5 inch heels? I have one pair of sandals with a 4 1/2 inch heel which I bought in a fit of madness, but they really strain on my calves and there's no way I can walk in them. 3 and a half is about as high as I can manage comfortably. SusieJayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01038616807347585413noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7492804663825542953.post-55519206522714627702018-04-14T15:41:20.841+02:002018-04-14T15:41:20.841+02:00Thinking about my answer to both of your comments,...Thinking about my answer to both of your comments, I suppose my ums and ahs to the found sequins from my prom dress and the markings from my heels does constitute not telling the truth. And yes the incidents were stressful. Dressing per se is stressful but it shouldn’t be. Its just I don’t want to rock the boat, but that hasn’t stopped me still getting seasick..<br />Abigale's Airingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10969935988651312500noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7492804663825542953.post-26145324934202115692018-04-14T15:18:37.004+02:002018-04-14T15:18:37.004+02:00I admit one can overdo the house proud bit when on...I admit one can overdo the house proud bit when one calls a weekly board meeting to discuss the latest ‘modifications’ to the interior of the house! We did have a major discussion when as with you the new sofa arrived. Here it wasn’t the floor that got modified but most of the door frame to the living room. Actually I do leave my tights and stockings drying on the bathroom rail, how did you know that!? <br />Abigale's Airingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10969935988651312500noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7492804663825542953.post-91349768944633596812018-04-14T15:17:22.535+02:002018-04-14T15:17:22.535+02:00It’s probably much more than that when I think of ...It’s probably much more than that when I think of my weight! Yes heels are murder for wooden floors. I must say the additional 4 or 5 inch’s gives one a new perspective. I’m even quite good at standing in my 6 inch heels, The problems (and pain) start when I try and move..Abigale's Airingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10969935988651312500noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7492804663825542953.post-72608139921583355822018-04-14T15:15:20.028+02:002018-04-14T15:15:20.028+02:00Thanks for dropping by Joanna! Its been sometime. ...Thanks for dropping by Joanna! Its been sometime. The ‘Difficult Conversation’ as Susie puts it was in fact hinted at sometime ago. Unfortunately it was rather cryptic and petered out before it really got going. She knows I would like to dress, what she doesn’t know (I think) is when I can I do. I know I have to do something but at you said one has to be clear in what one wants. As you and Deanna have said, don’t lie tell the truth. The ultimate question I need to ask myself is what is the truth and only then can I ‘tell it right’. I don’t see that I’m actively lying to her, it’s more like a case of passive deception. If I’m lying to anyone its myself. It doesn’t really matter what I call it, I need to do something about it. I know if she asks I will tell all without lying. I also know I will have to get the dialogue moving again.Abigale's Airingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10969935988651312500noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7492804663825542953.post-67969852296152705282018-04-10T00:00:07.222+02:002018-04-10T00:00:07.222+02:00About half a ton per square inch when all the weig...About half a ton per square inch when all the weight goes into one heel! My childhood home had oak parquet floors ruined by my mother and her sisters, I would get altitude sickness if I tried heels...Colinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01667939789517989280noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7492804663825542953.post-77508093291040664642018-04-01T12:31:40.257+02:002018-04-01T12:31:40.257+02:00Luckily we are not so house proud to notice additi...Luckily we are not so house proud to notice additional scuff marks on the floor (trying to wrestle a new sofa into the living room put paid to that) but if you want to avoid having the Difficult Conversation it's also a good idea not to leave your tights drying on the bathroom rail. Whoops. :-oSusieJayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01038616807347585413noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7492804663825542953.post-69975070008821980172018-03-28T18:00:56.717+02:002018-03-28T18:00:56.717+02:00I'd be willing to bet good money that everyone...I'd be willing to bet good money that everyone who is forced to dress in secret will have at least one story like this. Inevitably, we leave evidence. I recall well the stress brought on by having to lie to that partner who I had promised to be faithful to.<br /><br />These sort of things eventually convinced me to, as Joanna says, be truthful, to my wife at the time, and more importantly, to myself.Hallehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03847654451426257182noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7492804663825542953.post-23396943376230097912018-03-26T13:14:37.306+02:002018-03-26T13:14:37.306+02:00I wouldn't worry too much about this Abby. I a...I wouldn't worry too much about this Abby. I am not sure how far or close you are from coming out but I have found it is ultimately the best policy as in the end we end up telling the truth. You may want to formulate your thoughts on this and go for it unless you think it will be a game breaker. No matter how you decide to proceed it is not easy.joanna Santoshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16722222181799879120noreply@blogger.com